Play like this enforces the message, “It is safe to play this way with others”, and of course, that isn’t accurate. Your son has much more experience to draw from, and even without explicit coercion, he does have more power than a four year old because he has more knowledge. There is a large age gap, six years, between them and they are coming from remarkably different perspectives as a result. This is because your son and this child are at different developmental levels. Even though exploratory sexual play is normal for both of these children, the reasons why a four year old or a ten year old would choose to explore in this way are very different.
Many parents wonder about How To Recognize Concerning Behavior Between Children. But intervening now is important, as your son can learn safer behaviors which will serve him well for the rest of his life.Īge Appropriate vs Concerning Sexual Play One isolated instance doesn’t indicate that your son is a “sexual predator”, as this other parent fears-kids do make mistakes when they are acting out of curiosity. So it is something that definitely requires follow-up, supervision, and clarification of safety rules. You ask if this is concerning and I want to let you know that, yes, this is as concerning as when a child breaks any other safety rule-like bullying a friend, lying, or stealing from a store. It’s great that you’re paying attention, and that you’ve begun speaking with your son about this. Heh.Thanks for reaching out to Stop It Now!.
How's that for proper VIP treatment, fearless warriors?Ī hilariously fun day out, Ibiza Paintball Lounge is guaranteed to deliver you some of your most memorable holiday photos (and possibly the odd bruise, but hey, perfect for eliciting sympathy when out on the razzle later on). Nice huh?!Īs if all that wasn't cool enough, if there are more than 8 in your group, they'll even come and pick you all up from your hotel or villa if requested. The staff organise groups every Friday for any lone warriors out there who fancy doing battle and you'll be allocated a team. “But i'm not with a group and I want to play!” I hear you cry.
There's also a lush swimming pool and nicely stocked bar for chilling afterwards, plus a ‘safe-zone' for those who prefer to sit it out!
The battle site itself is really cool, featuring a huge 12,000m outdoor game zone filled with tanks, cannons and other nifty movie props. It's the perfect time to smear yourself in sexy camo paint, don your tough-guy military gear and show your mates just who's the boss with your dastardly arsenal of paint-powered bullets!īrilliant for groups, it's based right next to Gala Night where that Ibiza institution The Zoo Project explodes into action every Wednesday and Saturday throughout the summer. Allow us to present (drum roll) San Antonio's paintball lounge party! Perfect for letting off steam, creasing up laughing and romping around like Rambo. This week's featured Ibiza experience is one for the warriors.